Saw Shwetzz talking about this in her blog and my response to it was very spontaneous...something about which i always had strong notions.
I mean I really don't understand why people talk to their diary...I feel people who talk to their diary are ones who choose to be loners.
One who are afraid of sharing their feelings,their thougths...
What is the use of talkin to the diary...as it wont respond back...
Friendships and friends have evolved over the period of time for this particular reason so that you can share and talk to them...
I for myself always discourage this kinda behavior...what are you doin???
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Ya... I was pondering over the same thing and hence the post.
Happens.. Happens.. some people aren't as comfortable as we are sharing everything :P
@ Shwetzz: hehehe yes TRUE...hope u do that too
Hmmm..I am pretty private person, when it comes to my personal feelings...
I may discuss about all things under the sun with all and sundry..but I would discuss my most private emotions only with my diary...
some may show up in my writings, those which I don't mind sharing :)
wishes,
devika
acha a contradiction, Rakesh
you got to exclude my personal emotions from "all things under the sun" --:))
devika
Not always! I do it for the sake of introspection!
@ devika: :-) u know tell me one thing when u are in trouble or need some advice....dont you think a friend is way better than the diary
@ rakesh: ??? dint get u buddy
I second Devika..and as per your doubt ,..yes we do ask our frnds too but then we also collect options and..at the end of the day we are the ones who need to decide and do permutations and combinations to get the best result ..so interospection is required :)
Okay ?
hmmm.. avi.. though i pour out things to friends, spose, parents, siblings..
there will be some issues which I think , I am not yet ready to pour out .. I guess i can understand what you are trying to say. But it has defiently helped me to calm down in times of extreme emotions to pour out to a peice of paper.. i think it depends on the situation!
yeah that's true..but mostly we do so because we just want to come out of that thoughts and feelings...isn't it..?
Well, every indivifual has a unique way of expressing ones emotions. There are some things in life we feel good abt & some of these are extremely Personal.
We capture pictures of various events in life & store them for so that we can reflect & smile/sob when we look at them later.
Similarly some emotions when penned down help you know yr innerself better.
Introspect & seek solutions for problems who would not want 2 confide into anyone abt. That doesnt mean one is not expressive. It is good to have some things only hidden in yr innerself.
avi..
u ve been tagged!! :)
oh I would say wen I mess up something n u need no words like "I told u so" n neither wanna share it!
dairy stand out in its place!
Oh i <3 ma diary too..
Writing gives u more comfort dan speaking it out!..
neva mind dose r ma personal veiws.
@ those Kohl filled eyes: well for me its always being my frined who have are during that times
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