Ok I know I had said that I will be back only on 3rd dec after exams....but you know how this blog bug works...bloody..just could control myself from not logging in here...U understand rite :-P
"True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost"- Charles Caleb Colton
Friends they are the one with whom you share things,fight with them,pull their leg,,,plan your vacation and do many more things...but the most important thing you feel secure when you are along with them...
When It came to me I have had a bunch of friends from different part of my life...and luckily i have got some friend who are the best thing happened to me.
But there are some friends with whom things have changed...though the fact that i have shared some of the best memories with them..
Recently i spoke to a person who happened to be very close to me at one time [who am i kidding for years we knew each other]...but that person is no more in same terms with me..Ne ways it was start of this year that things went wrong and we stopped talkin to each other...
Now I am a person who doesn't give up on my friends very easily[people who know me know this fact],But still there was a point when i thought that there was no sense carrying forward that friendship...I hated to do that more coz the she knew that it was her fault coz of which we were in that situation..
Ne ways when things went bitter...i wanted that the person should suffer to hell....
So there i was talkin to that person last month and I could understand from the her sounds that things were not that good.I did try asking her as to wat had happened.
Some how i thought getting to know that thing wer'nt good at her end would make me feel good..But No it dint happen..
Some how it felt weird I knew.felt sorry for her..coz i knew that there was no one to stand by her during this period..
I kept on telling myself that I should be happy,but i just could feel that way...thats when I realised yes things did go wrong..but I dint want her to suffer...may be coz i cherished the memories and that weighted more that the thought of some one suffering..
I remember that day coz i prayed to god for that friends happiness...
16 comments:
wow...
Friends are important. even if they leave us, we will always pray for them.. :) that's the power of fraandship! :)
I totally agree ... the power of those memories erase all the bitterness :)
Good friends we've made, Good friends we've lost, along the way!
Bob Marley, No Woman No Cry, 1974
Need I say more?
Yeah!! This life asks too much, and we in the process f growing up lose many things that had added meaning to our life in the first place,... as u grow on! relationships take a different turn. but its essential to be the same.. It happens even among the best of friends..
First timer here!!! and a thought provoking post! i shud tell... Thanks n could relate well with the article
Rakesh...... I hope you are safe!
its hard to part i know ..specially coz u can't even stop loving them
Its quite sad , the stupid misunderstandings that we loose close friends to .
And quite true , friend or no friend , memories of the past keep friends alive forever . .
i understand very well.. similarly i too dont give up frens easily, my frens are very special to me..
it is said be slow in choosing and even slower in changing frens.
i didnt knw u are a revenge seeking person..
i too was not in talking terms with a very close fren of mine, he ditched me all of a sudden and still in shock y he did tht..
he called me after 2 mths and i didnt not bother to answer his call. i knew if i talk to him.. wht eva he speaks will play in my mind for more than a day..so no guys no crises.. lol
Hi Rakesh...
I just read Rakesh Vanamali's comment...Some woman caught you wrong side!? :)
if so..get rid -- the fastest or marry her :))
Woman like blogs are a dicey kind...you love it or it loves you...and pulls you back!! :)
i know the way i pulled my partner into marriage :)
wishes,
devika
btw, Rakesh...
your exams, terror in Mumbai...and you are thinking about friends...
oh yeah, if not in trouble.when do we think of real friends :)
good post, Rakesh...
wishes,
devika
@ Wormy: true power of friendship does make a diff
@ Swati: thanks for sharing your thoughts.ot does errase bitterness
@Rakesh: Bob Marley he is totally awesome...ne ways iam fine buddy.things fine here in mumbai
@ Seeker: welcome here:nice to see u could relate here..iam sure many have done the same
@ Think thank: true ya u just mis them somtime
@ Fantasies of a Lifetime: i feel the misunderstndg shoud be sorted out ASAP or esle it causes trouble :
@ nidhi: i guess u dint read the post proper;y...iam not on of them who seeks revenge...it was just the momentarily thought that came...
you know i believe each friendship is full of fights, misunderstandings etc etc.. they all leave scars, but true friendship survives despite all the scars, that i am sure about :)
I understand your feelings completely..
to be honest,gone thru similar situation..
Now when I reach a conclusion that I "Hate" hate someone..
I just ask myself.."to what extent?to wish the person suffers?"
this thought always calms me down..
very thought- provoking post..
looking forward to more of these..
@ Lena: yes you are right to some extent..this happens only if both respect the relationship.
@ Devika : na dear i guess its not possible now to go back on that road..and personally i dont want to go there now...
@ swats: i know wat you takin about :-)
Hi Rakesh,
let me tell you woman are the same, baba -- at the core of it :)
a known one is much better than an unknown :)
rest, is your choice dear, absolutely....
btw, now since bitter is through..why not a new post..oh, you have exams...
All the best,
and see you soon
wishes,
devika
hi Devika:i guess taking a pass at it will be a good choice..ne ways will post about my exams very soon...
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