Wednesday, August 3, 2011

SHIT Happens!!!!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!! Real beauty lies inside…
Money is not everything in the world!!! There are other things which are more important that money

When was the last time when u heard/made these random statements ??Probably when someone wanted to show sympathy to you right? Or probably to someone whom u wanted to indirectly say that he/she is ugly.. am not sure if its happens elsewhere..but we as Indians are very keen to sympathize with close ones…or for that matter anyone and everyone…

I feel its in our blood to sympathize on the smallest of the issue…and we offer our shoulder to

The questions remain how many of the times we genuinely feel what we say? Am sure more than half the time when we try to sympathize someone by saying something..deep inside we feel otherwise..

Want to share a real funny incident which happened

One of the weekdays I had met up with couple of friends of mine from college..and as lazy as I am..I asked them to plan the meet near my office…

When we 3 met , during our chat we felt out that one of friend (girl) was not in her best mood…so the other friend of mine enquired as to what was the reason for her foul mood…

The girl replied: Iam chumming and its my second day…that’s why the mood swings..
The guy replied : trying to sympathize with her…”I know how you feeling”
My reaction: DUDE REALLY?????? How ,when???

No sooner the girl heard that…she took his case left right and center….Was one helleva incident..i mean poor guy was doing it in good faith..so he would have never thought this would backfire in such a way..

My only advice is whenever u try to console someone….make sure you choose the right words and the right response…don’t just say things for th sake of saying….if you do so- you know SHIT HAPPENS :-P..