Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!! Real beauty lies inside…
Money is not everything in the world!!! There are other things which are more important that money
When was the last time when u heard/made these random statements ??Probably when someone wanted to show sympathy to you right? Or probably to someone whom u wanted to indirectly say that he/she is ugly.. am not sure if its happens elsewhere..but we as Indians are very keen to sympathize with close ones…or for that matter anyone and everyone…
I feel its in our blood to sympathize on the smallest of the issue…and we offer our shoulder to
The questions remain how many of the times we genuinely feel what we say? Am sure more than half the time when we try to sympathize someone by saying something..deep inside we feel otherwise..
Want to share a real funny incident which happened
One of the weekdays I had met up with couple of friends of mine from college..and as lazy as I am..I asked them to plan the meet near my office…
When we 3 met , during our chat we felt out that one of friend (girl) was not in her best mood…so the other friend of mine enquired as to what was the reason for her foul mood…
The girl replied: Iam chumming and its my second day…that’s why the mood swings..
The guy replied : trying to sympathize with her…”I know how you feeling”
My reaction: DUDE REALLY?????? How ,when???
No sooner the girl heard that…she took his case left right and center….Was one helleva incident..i mean poor guy was doing it in good faith..so he would have never thought this would backfire in such a way..
My only advice is whenever u try to console someone….make sure you choose the right words and the right response…don’t just say things for th sake of saying….if you do so- you know SHIT HAPPENS :-P..
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Spirit of Mumbai - Really?
How does one identify what exactly is Spirit of Mumbai?
You ask that question and ten heads will turn around and say the fact that Mumbaikars turn to work the very next day of a natural calamity/ terrorist attacks shows the real spirit of Mumbai. A true Mumbaikar according to them is truly buoyant.
News Channels and print media too make most of it by talking about how these things doesn’t hamper the spirit of Mumbaikars and how life returns to normalcy even after something like a 26/11 attacks.
One thing that I fail to understand is “do we really have a choice to stay back at home after such calamities”. I am sure that 9 out 10 would say “NO”. Like us, many of them are more worried of the fact that they will get penalized for not showing up at work – especially if other colleagues turn up. It’s natural for people to move on with their life because if they don’t do so, they would not be able to survive in the city.
Ya I know this is more valid to corporate stooges and that still there are ways in which you can take a day off…But what about people who work on daily wages? Do they really have a choice? If you look at the facts I am sure we will find people who are comfortably tucked into a safety blankets are people who will talk about SPIRIT of MUMBAI.
People say calamities like this shows how people go out of their way to help others. I agree to their views, but deep down inside I am also aware of the sheer helplessness of ordinary Mumbaikars in the face of terror attacks. And that is why we help others hoping that in case we ever becomes a victim of such tragedy there will be someone to help us.
And why aren’t we penalizing the media? they are people who provide free PR for the terrorist…Check the front page of DNA new papers the very next day of the recent attacks and I am sure you would have also been as perplexed as I was- they had an image of a person who was lying down in a pool of blood..during the recent bomb blasts.
Their justification was they wanted us to face the reality…By humble request to them “please do not make us face such hard realities of Life … we are happy without own small world…” … Day in day out Mumbaikars see enough things which shows us the real Mumbai.
Please next time when you talk about spirit of Mumbai think of the people who have lost their life….
Like everybody says
“Terrorist attacks” -> “Media hype” -> “The blame game”-> “The candle light march”-> “And life moves on”
You ask that question and ten heads will turn around and say the fact that Mumbaikars turn to work the very next day of a natural calamity/ terrorist attacks shows the real spirit of Mumbai. A true Mumbaikar according to them is truly buoyant.
News Channels and print media too make most of it by talking about how these things doesn’t hamper the spirit of Mumbaikars and how life returns to normalcy even after something like a 26/11 attacks.
One thing that I fail to understand is “do we really have a choice to stay back at home after such calamities”. I am sure that 9 out 10 would say “NO”. Like us, many of them are more worried of the fact that they will get penalized for not showing up at work – especially if other colleagues turn up. It’s natural for people to move on with their life because if they don’t do so, they would not be able to survive in the city.
Ya I know this is more valid to corporate stooges and that still there are ways in which you can take a day off…But what about people who work on daily wages? Do they really have a choice? If you look at the facts I am sure we will find people who are comfortably tucked into a safety blankets are people who will talk about SPIRIT of MUMBAI.
People say calamities like this shows how people go out of their way to help others. I agree to their views, but deep down inside I am also aware of the sheer helplessness of ordinary Mumbaikars in the face of terror attacks. And that is why we help others hoping that in case we ever becomes a victim of such tragedy there will be someone to help us.
And why aren’t we penalizing the media? they are people who provide free PR for the terrorist…Check the front page of DNA new papers the very next day of the recent attacks and I am sure you would have also been as perplexed as I was- they had an image of a person who was lying down in a pool of blood..during the recent bomb blasts.
Their justification was they wanted us to face the reality…By humble request to them “please do not make us face such hard realities of Life … we are happy without own small world…” … Day in day out Mumbaikars see enough things which shows us the real Mumbai.
Please next time when you talk about spirit of Mumbai think of the people who have lost their life….
Like everybody says
“Terrorist attacks” -> “Media hype” -> “The blame game”-> “The candle light march”-> “And life moves on”
Saturday, July 9, 2011
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Well after almost a year long break...let's see if i continue blogging via nexus
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